This is what cousin Amy posted about the whole thing below.
“My 24 f bridesmaid/cousin Ella 26 f is to be in my wedding party in June. The ongoing issue is that my wedding has a blue and green peacock theme and guests have been asked to follow this color scheme with their clothes,” Amy said in her post.
“Hair wasn’t originally included at all in the color scheme but my cousin Ella has natural bright ginger hair.”
“I would never ask someone to permanently change their hair for my wedding, I know that would be bonkers so I suggested some temporary hair dye, but Ella argued that she has been growing her hair for 6 years and doesn’t want to risk the color not washing out.”
“I thought this was ridiculous because it literally says washes out in like 14 washes. But Ella says because her hair is completely natural color it might take strongly to her hair.”
“So I gave up on that avenue and suggested a wig, it is 1 day 1 single day and there are some amazing wigs these days, I had a look on Instagram and you wouldn’t even be able to tell.”
“But she said she would feel self-conscious and weird wearing a wig and that because her hair is butt length that it might sit weird on her head.”
“So she won’t dye it, and won’t cover it up. I really don’t want to come across as a bridezilla but butt length flaming red hair will destroy the wedding photos, and ruin the color scheme completely.”
“I’m at a loss, I can’t cut her from the wedding because my mom would murder me but I can’t have freaking Merida ruining the photos, AITA for asking this of her for just 1 single day?”
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