A 27-year-old man says his 22-year-old girlfriend slept with another guy while they were “taking it slow.”
He just found out, and how he’s asking the internet if he should stay in a relationship with her.
“I have been with this girl I’ll call Jess for close to a year now,” he started out by explaining.
“Since specifics matter here, we started dating around last Thanksgiving, but it was only about a month later when we said were in an official relationship.”
“I really liked this girl from the get-go and we’ve gotten very close since then, and were actually planning on moving in together soon.”
“Here’s a problem, recently Jess and I ran into a guy at a small get-together with mutual friends. They exchanged a weird look like there was something between them but I didn’t think too much of it at the time.”
“During the party, something came up about the place Jess went to for a date (the time was clear since it was a Christmas market in my town), and again I thought something was off about the guy.”
“Well, later that night I actually get a text from him (he got my number from one of the mutual friends), but said “hey I don’t know you but I thought you should know that Jess and I hooked up right after Christmas.”
“I confronted Jess about this and I could tell she tensed up right away.”