Her Bridesmaid Had A Drunk Panic Attack At Her Wedding Which Caused Some Of Her Family Members To Miss The Send-Off
A woman who recently got married feels that her bridesmaid Beth really ruined things for her at the wedding.
She started out by saying that Beth has been drinking a lot lately, and it has spiraled out of control.
While Beth is drunk, she tends to have full-on panic attacks that are pretty much the result of her having lost 3 of her grandparents in just 6 months.
Beth swears she doesn’t blackout when she has her panic attacks, but after everything is over and done with she can’t remember a single thing.
2 weeks before this bride got married, Beth came to her birthday party at a Topgolf. Beth went to her cousin’s bridal shower beforehand, and it should have taken her 20 minutes to get to the party after that.
This bride called Beth before heading over to Topgolf as she had requested, but Beth didn’t pick up the phone.
When she did call back, the bride could tell she was already wasted.
Beth ended up finally arriving at the party, but she had to be helped out of the Uber by the bride’s husband and his friend Tom (who Beth has previously slept with).
“She doesn’t even get to the door before she’s being belligerent,” the bride said. “I didn’t see this for myself bc my husband told me to stay put & have fun since it was my bday.”
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“She was crawling around on the mulch and had no idea who Tom was & barely remembered who my husband was.”
Beth had to call someone to come pick her up and she ended up leaving not long after she arrived.
The very next day, Beth called the bride to say sorry. Although this bride tried to brush it off, she did ask Beth if all she had done was drink, because she was concerned that she had to have mixed her drinking with something else to get that trashed.
Beth said there was no way and she promised to not drink at the upcoming wedding to keep it together.
On the day of the wedding, Beth and the other girls were all getting ready with the bride, and everyone was drinking celebratory mimosas.
Beth drank several of them, but the bride wasn’t concerned because Beth was doing alright and holding herself together.
They all made it to the venue, they did pictures, the bride walked down the aisle, they did more photos, and then they sat down to eat for the reception.
Around 45 minutes later, the bride couldn’t find Beth anywhere.
“I find out that my grandma, MIL & 1 of my bridesmaids missed the send-off bc she was hysterical & wouldn’t tell anyone why & they were trying to help her,” she continued.
Now, she seriously thought that Beth would eventually text her after the honeymoon was over to apologize for her behavior, but she never did.
Instead, a month goes by and Beth then texts her to ask what her 4th of July plans are. The bride’s grandparents always throw a party, but her grandma had specifically asked her to not invite Beth to the party due to what went down at her wedding.
She did not lie to Beth and told her she was not invited to the party because of her behavior at the wedding.
Beth’s response was that she was working to better herself and the whole thing was not her fault because her family members could have just left her there alone.
The bride can’t understand why Beth can’t just say sorry and is left feeling confused that Beth attacked her for not being sympathetic about her panic attacks.
“I told her, if you were sober I could see where you were coming from but you drank knowing what happens,” the bride said.
“She told me that nothing was good enough for me on my wedding day & we having talked since.”
How would you deal with this?
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