“He’s calling other men creepy when he’s dating someone young enough to be his daughter. This is a prime example of the pot calling the kettle black.”
“I’m afraid you are being groomed. You are only 20, I highly doubt you have much experience with dating & men other than the jerks you may have dated in high school. Also dating someone twice your age is just… not a good idea.”
“Part of a healthy relationship is conflict resolution. And the fact you aren’t able to openly discuss issues with him is a red flag.”
“Also, him telling you what to say and do is another huge red flag. If you guys are in a healthy relationship you should be able to discuss these things and find a middle ground.”
“I urge you to leave this relationship and find someone less controlling and who shares the same life experience as you.”
“It’ll lead to a much more fulfilling relationship. If you don’t leave his controlling behaviors could lead to you become a shell of your former self.”
You can read the rest of what the internet had to say to her here.