“Sarah and her fiancé gathered everyone here and are paying for our meals. The night is about them… not you.”
“If you wanted a pregnancy announcement dinner you should have held it on your own time but you wanted to take the attention from Sarah and her fiancé away so badly that you’re ruining their engagement dinner?”
N began crying and told her she should not have spoken to her like that. Her response was to tell N she was hardly the first pregnant woman and she should be respectful of Sarah’s night.
N left soon after that with her husband in tow, and things were very awkward for a bit before returning to normal.
As soon as she got home that evening, her boyfriend accused her of ruining the engagement dinner and being a jerk.
Her boyfriend also insisted she owed N an apology and chastised her for making this her business when it wasn’t.
Luckily, Sarah is on her side and sent her a text thanking her for standing up to N.
Sarah did say that she did not have to word things the way that she did but she appreciated her gesture and the fact that N later left.
How would you handle this?
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