Lisa made it clear that each bridesmaid would be able to pick any style of dress, so long as it is the same color she wants.
She then let each of her friends know that they had every right to say no to being in her wedding and that she wouldn’t be upset with them.
Lisa posted another video to TikTok showing the exact letter she wrote since so many people were curious to see it.
TikTok; pictured above is the second part of Lisa’s letter
Lisa thinks it should be normal to make your expectations as a bride known to your bridesmaids, and she thinks it should also be ok to decline to be in a wedding party.
She noted that every bride is different and wants different things, so a letter is the perfect way to get everyone on the same page.
You can follow Lisa on TikTok here! She has a whole bunch of awesome wedding-themed videos.
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