She’s Selling Her Used Underwear Online And Her Fiancé Is Asking The Internet For Help With How To Handle This
A 28-year-old woman has been selling her used underwear online and now her 29-year-old fiancé is asking the internet for help with how to handle this entire situation.
They have been in a relationship for 6 years and they were supposed to have gotten married already last year, but they had to postpone their wedding until next year so they will be tying the knot in 2022.
Anyway, this woman’s fiancé noticed that she had some exciting new underwear, but it wasn’t for him at all.
“She was wearing new underwear that I complimented, and she told me she got a bunch of new underwear with the money she made from selling old pairs,” this man started out by saying.
“So it’s not like she was trying to hide it from me, but she never mentioned it before and started doing this a month ago.”
“She got the idea from Tiktok. I’m incredibly uncomfortable with the idea of strange men having my fiancée’s used underwear, but she says it’s all anonymous.”
He added that she told him she does not take any photos and gives a fake name to her customers.
When she mails her underwear out, she does not put down a return address on the package, so she’s not sure why he’s upset by what she’s doing since she thinks she’s staying safe.
“We both have good jobs and live comfortably, so it’s not like she needs the extra money,” he continued.
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“There’s something weird going on psychologically. She spends about 40% of her income on necessities (rent, bills, groceries) and has always saved 50%, leaving only 10% to spend on things she wants.”
He noted that it is important to her to have some money she can spend how she wants…
…But he estimates her panty sales are only like 5% of what she makes every month so it’s not a lot of extra money she’s making.
He ended things by saying this whole situation isn’t exactly something he would end the relationship over, but it is a thing that really upsets him.
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“You don’t need a logical reason to be uncomfortable with this. If you’ve already told her how you feel and she dismisses those feelings, that’s now the main problem.”
“I would ask her to show you how she does it. How she sells them and gets clients to buy.”
“If it’s truly anonymous like she says it is, then it’s a business. And she shouldn’t have an issue showing you and you shouldn’t have an issue with it…”
“I think it’s really strange that she didn’t discuss this with you prior to her actually going out and doing it, and I think that plus the fact that she’s not really doing this because she needs the money are two really big red flags.”
“I would never do something like this without talking to my bf and getting his feelings on it first. It seems like a break in trust and she’s liking this other attention from strange men rather than doing it out of a necessity to support herself, and it seems like she’s getting something from her doing this that she’s not getting from your relationship, and it ain’t a little extra spending money. Good luck to you!”
“I’d think that she‘d be selling panties and at least sending some pictures as well. I don’t think that she’d have just advertised her business without any pictures.”
“The pictures may or may not have her face/identifying features. she may need to show and send some pictures so that the buyers know that she’s not some dude named Joe with a kink for cross-dressing. So, I would have a hard time believing that she did not send any photos.”
“I was selling used bras on fbook marketplace – clean and intended for other women. I was shocked that men, and a lot of them, messaged me asking me to buy them via mail after I wore them for a few days.”
“Not something I would do (though I support the hustle), but the point is you would be surprised how many don’t want a meet-up. I guess they saw my few (very modest) pictures on fbook though, and that was enough.”
You can read the rest of what the internet had to say to him here.
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