She found out that her daughter was no longer going to be a flower girl when she sat her sister down to have coffee and talk.
Her sister told her that her toddler wasn’t being perfect enough to take part in being a flower girl.
She had no idea how she was going to have to explain to her daughter that she was no longer included.
Her daughter was overjoyed to be a flower girl, and she knew explaining this to her daughter about not being involved anymore was going to crush her.
As that conversation with her sister came to a close, she asked her sister to just stop and think about her choice for another day.
She made it clear to her sister that if she was really going to go through with going back on letting her daughter be a flower girl, she would no longer be going to her wedding at all.
Her sister didn’t reconsider, and so she had to tell her daughter the truth. “She cried herself to sleep (so did I and my husband),” she said.
“Well after a week when I was a no show for anything my sister started to panic and started to get every to talk to me even drop off gifts for my daughter.”
“When I told them why a good number of our family including bridesmaids dropped out.”
Her sister still didn’t invite her daughter to be part of the wedding again, so she knew she wasn’t going to be at the wedding at all.
Instead, she, her husband, and her daughter took a vacation without their phones. As soon as they got back, she found several emails and letters from her sister saying sorry.