“It scares the hell out of me. It makes me sad too. I love them so much. I know it doesn’t seem like it but I really do,” she wrote.
“And my sister does not want to go back to my mom. I’m kinda all she knows. But to say I’m tired and resentful is an understatement. I’m not their mom. That’s it, full stop.”
She’s really struggling with the decision she wants to make in light of her grandma getting upset with her.
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“You seriously think mom is gonna take care of them?”
“BUT as much as I understand the need to have your own life back, both kids are nearly at an age they will be a lot less dependent on you (getting jobs, going to college, moving out, etc), and given the trauma they have already been through, I kinda feel like you would regret in the long term “abandoning” them to their Mom.”
“You’re almost there.. your brother is 16 and you should mentally ready him to get a job and support himself/ move out in 2 years. Same with your sister in 4 years.”
“Can your fiancé and you adjust for 2 years? The house will be emptier once your brother moves. You’re still so young.”