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“After a few months of having an affair with her, I started to ask her that I wanted to take this on another level and wanted to go stable with her,” he explained.
“Given the situation with her boyfriend, and my current relationship growing stale, it would have been a win-win situation for the both of us if we broke up with our current relationships and hooked up together.”
“You would not have another man/woman on the side if you are satisfied with your current relationship right? WRONG!! Boy, I was so wrong!!!”
He essentially told her that he loved her, and she replied that she wasn’t going to leave her boyfriend for him. She also said she felt he was just a friend to her.
Now, he thought this woman was the one; he could see himself having kids with her and marrying her and he was shocked she didn’t feel the same way.
“Since I was so deeply in love and emotionally invested in her, I jumped the gun and broke up with my current girlfriend in a hasty attempt to show her that I was dead serious about getting in a serious relationship with her,” he said.
“However, this did not sway her decision and she stuck with her original man and said to me she was just sad and lonely during the time we had an affair and when those feelings have passed, she still ultimately wants to return back to her boyfriend.”
“This left me broken, devastated, and without a relationship. I have lost it all for being a cheat. I couldn’t bear the fact that I would be losing contact with her so I decided to be her friend.”
“She reluctantly agrees and said it would be very difficult for me especially since I still have feelings for her. After being accepted in her life further as a “friend”, I was able to maintain communication with her despite the pandemic breaking out forcing us all on lockdown.”
“After the lockdown was eased, I was able to get to know her family and was even visiting her at their home. It came to the point that I was so close to her sisters and her cousins that I always welcome at their home if I wish to visit. Her family is very kind to me and makes me feel welcome whenever I go there to visit them.”
At this point in his life, he’s still holding out hope that this woman will change her mind and her feelings about him and leave her boyfriend.
