Chip Chick
“They will be driving to a cabin for 2days where their other friends are coming too. I basically lost it there. I told him this I cannot put up with, him being in a different place for the weekend with zero contact.”
Ok, now that’s definitely weird though to drive to a cabin in the woods with your ex to have closure, even if your mutual friends are around.
The biggest red flag I see here though is that she was not invited on this trip at all.
“Frankly it’s not that I doubt him that something will happen, I am majorly concerned that the mental backlash of meeting her again will set us back to zero,” she wrote.
“He has been depressed over her and I cannot see him going back to that zone.”
“Now we are fighting and he feels maybe he rushed into the relationship and the kind of sacrifice I am asking from him, he cannot do that (context same).”
She is left wondering if she should give her boyfriend the go-ahead to head off to the cabin in the woods with his ex, or if she should continue to tell him that he cannot go.
How would you feel in this situation?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
