Her boyfriend proceeded to tell her that he would really love to see her that weight again, and she began crying.
Obviously, it was hurtful for her to hear that because of her eating disorders and the fact that when she was that weight she was so unhealthy.
“I feel that this is an extreme betrayal of my boundaries and trust. He’s gaslighted me constantly since that day and part of me is ready to end it, but I’m having a hard time mentally,” she continued.
“I’m feeling like I’ll never meet a man who isn’t obsessed with me being smaller, but I’m also just feeling very uncertain about how to handle this.”
She already attempted to end things in a very gentle way, and he wound up showing up at her front door at 11:30 at night, so she’s unsure how to proceed here.
Sounds like the only weight she really needs to lose is that of her loser boyfriend.
How would you feel in this situation?
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