The Day After Christmas, She Learned That Her Husband Had Several Affairs And Now Has Two Children She Never Knew About With A Third On The Way
A 33-year-old woman has been married to her 36-year-old husband for 8 years. Early on in their relationship, they discussed the fact that they both do not want to have children.
Not long after that, she discovered that she was unable to carry her own children, and from there, she and her husband spoke up potentially going the route of surrogacy or adoption.
In the end, they both figured that they were comfortable not having children as they had originally discussed, and that was the end of that…or so, she thought.
She recently found out that her husband has two children from several affairs he has had without her even knowing, and he’s now expecting child number three with one of these other women.
“My husband works in the medical field, his job requires a lot of long hours, overnight shifts, and travel, especially the last two years,” she explained.
“This is why I did not notice him carrying on multiple affairs behind my back, which resulted in two children with two different women and another child on the way.”
“I found this out because the parent of the pregnant woman contacted me since their daughter is 19 and still lives with them (though he insists she told him she was 24, and that her university apartment was hers).”
To add insult to injury, she also discovered that her husband has a secret bank account, and he’s been giving his affair partners money.
She cannot believe the lies her husband has been telling, and she also cannot believe the great lengths he went to in order to deceive her.
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As soon as she found out about everything, she went straight to her husband, who seemed to have already known that she is planning on leaving him after this.
She can’t shake the feeling that her husband knew all along that she would find out and leave, but she’s worried that he had these affairs because he wanted to get a divorce but couldn’t follow through on it.
“I know what I should do but I can’t bring myself to do it, I haven’t spoken to him since I confronted him and told him to get out, I have no idea where he is,” she said.
“I can’t think straight, I don’t even know how many other women there were or if this is the worst of it or if I’ll ever really find out the truth.”
She knows the right thing for her to do is lawyer up and get out of this marriage, but she isn’t quite about to do that just yet.
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