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“Plus, she had called me out, about leaving her messages on ‘read’ even though the conversation ended. Other times she restarted it and usually asks questions to keep that chat going.”
While he was chatting with his female friend and developing a crush on her, he was having problems with his fiancée.
He was disagreeing and arguing with his fiancée on a lot of different topics, and he revealed this to his female friend.
“I feel like an idiot because now the friend is trying to help me figure out if I should stay or break things off,” he said.
“I can’t tell if she likes me but she seems to be wanting the best for me but at the same time pushing me to be active about the situation.”
His female friend is not encouraging him to make more of an effort in his relationship, and she’s also not giving him the advice of ending things.
His friend is encouraging him to be more clear about what he really does want, and he’s feeling quite confused.
“I don’t know how to deal with the situation anymore,” he continued. “I want to know if the friend likes me back…but I also don’t want to just walk away from the engagement.”
He knows he owes it to his fiancée to keep trying in their relationship, but he’s thinking things between them are hopeless since all they do is argue.
His friend is really influencing his decision-making process with whether or not he should end things with his fiancée and call off the wedding.
“I don’t want to end things with the fiancée because of the friend, I want to know that I am ending things because it didn’t work out but I’m so confused right now, that I can’t tell,” he mentioned.
