Fast forward to a wedding she and her husband recently attended; it was for one of her husband’s college friends, and her husband was part of the wedding party.
In the month leading up to the wedding, she asked her husband if his ex was going to be at the wedding.
He was irritated by her question and revealed that his ex most likely would be there since she was friends with his friend who was getting married.
She felt very upset by this, though she did not tell her husband and didn’t think it was her place to demand that his ex be uninvited.
“I know I can’t say who to invite but I think was tacky since they all know how ‘strong’ feelings were between them,” she continued.
“At this point though we’re fighting all the time and I’m also feeling very insecure because of weight gain & H guilting me about choosing not to work.”
Well, the day of the wedding rolled around, and as soon as she saw her husband’s ex there, she wanted to go home immediately.
“I don’t think I’m unattractive (even with the weight) but I’ll admit she’s effortlessly beautiful,” she mentioned.
“She’s one of those ‘cool’ girls that everyone migrates to, I just kept feeling bad.”