Chip Chick
“Recently, he even sent a friend request to my mother. He also seems to know stuff about me that I haven’t put on social media, such as my move to another province for university, and he once took a picture of my parents’ house when driving by and sent it to me.”
“I sent a message to his mother to let her know that he was making me uncomfortable online and that maybe she could have a discussion with him about boundaries, but she simply told me that “he’s just being a teenage boy” and that I should be passed my “tattletale” age at 19.”
“I decided to block him on Facebook because I realized that if he wasn’t autistic I would have a long time ago and I shouldn’t be treating him differently after I told him many times he was making me uncomfortable, and his crush turned to obsession.”
Recently, this boy’s dad passed, and he let her know that in a message. She felt bad for him, and after she gave her condolences, he went right back to asking her very inappropriate things.
She’s struggling with whether or not she should block this guy, since he isn’t your standard internet stalker and she does feel terrible that he lost his dad recently.
On the other hand, she’s feeling so uncomfortable with the things that he says to her and she can’t get him to stop.
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“Please for your own safety, stop engaging with him and document EVERYTHING. Make your social media private if it isn’t already.”
“He’s being super creepy.”
“I’ve learned the hard way that being friends with someone because you feel bad for them is not a good foundation for a friendship – but the way he’s treating you is not how anyone in their right mind treats a friend.”
