“Second, we agreed on a little party of only 30-40 people, cocktail party style,” she said. “With good food and drinks. I mentioned that I would love to have some dancing and he doesn’t want this.”
She and her fiancé do have several mutual friends that they regularly hang out with, but it’s only to watch sports together since her fiancé never wants to do anything else.
She does have a lot of friends and is very social, so she does go out with them a lot alone since her fiancé never wants to come.
Being that she is social and she does have a lot of friends, she does want to be able to include them in their wedding celebration.
She’s butting heads with her fiancé on so many things that it’s killed off the excitement that she did have about planning their wedding together.
“At this point, I’m wondering if he’s just become a super selfish person, or are we really just that different,” she continued.
“We’ve always known that we are polar opposites but now it seems so glaring to me. He’s perfectly fine being alone, he complains about his “friends” not really being friends (which honestly, he’s not even that good of a friend to them).”
“I am a very social person and I love all my friends, I love food and just having a good time. I’m wondering if this is what it will be like for the rest of my life – just going out to social events alone. Otherwise, we are happy and in love at home.”
How would you handle things if you were in her situation? You can read the original post on Reddit here.