His Girlfriend Lost Her Job Over Partying Too Hard A Year Ago And She’s Not Interested In Getting A New Job Or Slowing Down Her Party Life
A 27-year-old man has been dating his 26-year-old girlfriend since they were both seniors in college.
It’s been 2 years since they each graduated, and they wasted no time moving in with one another after that.
While he and his girlfriend were still seniors, they loved to go out and party with their friends, and they frequently went to clubs together.
After graduation though, he buckled down and focused all of his energy on his career instead of partying, however, his girlfriend did not do the same.
“I have already made some decent progress in my career and make a good living,” he explained.
“My girlfriend on the other hand never got out of her college phase. The first year after we graduated college she got a job but put minimal effort into it.”
“She would go out 3 to 4 times a week ( and still does) to clubs and parties which lead to her oversleeping a lot and performing poorly at her job. This ultimately led to her losing her job about a year after graduating college.”
Right after his girlfriend got fired, she didn’t try at all to get a new job. It’s now been an entire year since his girlfriend got fired, and he’s the only one paying for anything in their lives.
He covers the cost of their groceries, their utility bills, the rent on their apartment. Meanwhile, his girlfriend doesn’t contribute at all.
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Aside from not contributing financially, his girlfriend doesn’t even lift a finger when it comes to cleaning their apartment or cooking their meals.
Every single day when he gets home, it’s on him to pick up the slack and do all of their cleaning and cooking, on top of working his full-time job.
“For the past year, when I talk about her getting a new job or helping around the house she gets annoyed at me and just tries to run away from the conversation,” he said.
“But she still goes out drinking and partying 3 to 4 times a week while I pay all the bills and do all the housework.”
Although he has addressed things with his girlfriend and told her on multiple occasions that their relationship cannot just continue in this way, she never listens to him.
Recently, he got a promotion at work and that has afforded him the ability to move into a larger condo…but he’s not sure if he’s going to invite his girlfriend to move in with him at his new place.
He is still in love with her, though he doesn’t want to live the way that they do.
“I feel like she is still stuck in college and I feel like I have outgrown her,” he continued. “I think that breaking up is the only viable solution here.”
He’s wondering if there is some chance of being able to make a go of it with her, or if it’s really time to cut his losses here.
Do you think he needs to break up with her and move on? You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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