She Kissed A Guy Without His Consent And Now All Her Friends Hate Her
An 18-year-old girl ended up kissing a 19-year-old guy without asking for his consent first, and pretty much all of her friends hate her for what she did.
She’d been in the “talking stage” with this guy for about three weeks before he asked her to be his girlfriend.
But she wasn’t looking for a relationship and turned him down. “I feel that I’m just too busy and wouldn’t have the time nor the emotional energy,” she explained.
Their mutual friends had also started getting involved in their non-relationship, which was the final nail in the coffin.
After that, she started losing her feelings for him. Finally, a friend said she had to tell him rather than continue leading him on.
So, she told him over the phone. But a week passed, and she realized she might’ve been pressured into making the wrong decision.
“I do like him…Not wanting a relationship didn’t mean not wanting anything to do with him,” she admitted.
After everything had happened, they were both at a party. But instead of talking and laughing together, he completely ignored her.
So, she asked him to go outside to talk. And things did not go as planned.
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She was drunk and asked him, “Can I kiss you?” Surprised, he mumbled something she didn’t catch.
However, instead of waiting for his response or consent, she pecked him on the lips. Making matters worse, it turned out to be his first kiss.
She felt terrible about kissing him without consent and even worse when she realized it was a huge milestone. A friend of his even messaged her on social media to read her the right act.
Now, her only next steps are to try and respond to the situation and apologize. “Of course, I feel horrible about it and I already texted him that I’m incredibly sorry,” she explained.
“He wants to have a phone call later today and I just don’t know what to do.”
Commenters suggested she open the lines of communication by explaining why she’d said she wasn’t ready for a relationship.
They also gave feedback that it sounds like friends were too involved in the potential relationship. And when other’s criticized her for “leading him on,” she reiterated that she’d had a crush on him for months leading up to the debacle.
Finally, she shared her stance on consent and why the situation was far from okay. “I also don’t try to blame someone else. I’m responsible for my actions and it doesn’t matter what influenced it, drunk or not, it was my mistake.”
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