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She’s afraid to hurt her best friend’s feelings, so that’s why she hasn’t told her how she really feels.
“I would normally just keep my mouth shut, especially since she’s not asking for my opinion, but I think her clothing choices are making it really hard to find dates which has been very distressing for her,” she continued.
“I feel bad every time I hear that she’s been ghosted by a guy she likes or a guy breaks things off with her after a date or two. She seems to be unaware that her clothes might be having an impact.”
She did question her best friend about why she was under the impression guys don’t want to date her at all, and her best friend chalked it up to not wanting children.
Her best friend also mentioned that she doesn’t understand what would be so offputting to guys aside from that key detail.
Not that long ago, she decided to discuss her best friend’s outfits with one of their mutual friends, and this mutual friend also thinks her bestie’s choice in clothes is what’s making guys run.
She’s seriously considering addressing this with her best friend and letting her know she genuinely thinks she’s dressing in an awful way.
“With dating apps being based almost 100% on appearances it feels both mean to not tell her and mean to tell her,” she concluded.
Do you think she should voice her opinion or keep it to herself?
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