Chip Chick
It was getting so bad that she was sure she could hit the mute button without him even realizing she wasn’t there and actively listening.
She tried to subtly give him cues that he was making everything about himself, but he just wasn’t picking up what she was putting down.
On the night of their second date, she thought everything was better face to face than it had been on their phone calls.
She kept on giving him cues about letting this be a two-way street instead of a one-way street, but again, he wasn’t noticing what she was saying.
She planned on letting him know at some point during date 2 that he was just too into himself and not doing a good job of making her feel heard.
“I had full intentions of telling him because he came over to my place and I was making us dinner,” she said.
“We ate, I was getting myself amped up, and then he dropped on me that he wants to “make it official” and “put a label on it.” I’d told him from the get-go that I wanted to move slow and rushing things was something that had burned me before.”
“So, instead of having the “holy moly stop talking about only yourself” conversation, we had to have the “slow down please” conversation.”
Clearly, this guy was more invested in her than she was in him, and he was coming on really strong.
It wasn’t that she didn’t like him; she just didn’t like that he only focused on himself. Since she didn’t have the opportunity to address this with him on their second date, she thought it would be alright to talk to him over text about her concerns.
Well, he didn’t like what she said and replied with an enormous message (more like a novel) accusing her of being incorrect and leading him on.
