“I was trying to be gentle. She said she understood. Today again she asked. I’m worried she won’t come to the wedding if I say no but…I hate that guy and my FH hates him too. Now I’m feeling like I’m making a big deal out of nothing.”
She has already tried to give her Maid of Honor an out and say that she can bow out of being in the wedding if it upsets her so much that her boyfriend isn’t allowed to come.
Her Maid of Honor got angry about that and defended her boyfriend to no end. Her Maid of Honor completely depends on her boyfriend and can’t bring herself to split up with him.
She’s wondering if it’s wrong of her to stick by not wanting her Maid of Honor’s boyfriend at her wedding.
She’s concerned that if she does keep saying no to her Maid of Honor, her boyfriend will show up anyway and ruin everything and there is no good solution here.
What do you think?
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