The Guy That She’s Been Hooking Up With Just Fell In Love With Another Girl And She’s Wondering If She Should Warn Her
A 30-year-old woman has been hooking up with a guy 2 years older than she is for close to a year now.
Their relationship has only been purely physical and it’s never gone beyond that at all. This guy is really invested in his career and advancing himself, and he hasn’t gone out of his way to make her feel like he’s interested in her as a person.
He made it clear to her that he was only in this for, well, her body, and she’s convinced he knows nothing about her at all.
Over the last year that she’s been seeing this guy, she knows that he has been sleeping around with other women, and although she did confront him about it he didn’t stop.
Two evenings ago, she stopped by this guy’s apartment, after not seeing him for a few weeks, which is what she normally does. As soon as she arrived though, he demanded that she leave immediately.
She wasn’t about to walk away without getting some kind of an explanation, and she wanted to know why he was kicking her out.
He claimed that he had “no interest” in ever seeing her and he figured she was aware. She wasn’t though, as she went on vacation and had just got back, but while she was gone he never indicated to her that their situation was over and done with.
“I didn’t want to leave because I rightfully wanted answers,” she explained. “He got angry with me and said that he found someone.”
Her hookup buddy fell in love with another girl, who happens to be 21-years-old. After some online investigation, she found out who the girl was.
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“With a little digging, I found her Instagram,” she said. “Honestly, she seems snobbish but she is very beautiful and much younger than him.”
“She is posting on her story about how her boyfriend is buying her such expensive gifts and spoiling her and whatever.”
“I feel sort of betrayed because during my whole year of being with this man he has not ever paid for any of my things.”
She’s seriously considering reaching out to this girl to warn her about how this guy treated her, which wasn’t nice at all, as she is concerned he’s going to just use this girl as he used her.
She feels that she owes it to this girl to issue her a heads up, even if she doesn’t exactly heed her warning.
She also thinks this girl has a right to know that this guy has been sleeping with a lot of women in the last year, as she might not even know.
“They most likely won’t be getting married and when he’s done with this 21-year-old, who do you think he’ll come back to?” she wondered.
“There’s not going to be any laughing at me. He may not act like it, but sleeping with someone for a year creates an undeniable attachment.”
Do you think she should give this girl a heads up, or leave her alone to find out on her own?
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