Katharina Buczek
But, her husband did not have the reaction she expected.
“I thanked him for telling me and started talking about how to confront Ian, but Terrence got sort of quiet. And when I asked him what was wrong, he said we should consider doing it,” the woman explained.
Apparently, Terrence thinks that the three thousand dollars would be a great investment for the newlyweds and could also help pay off their honeymoon.
Understandably, though, the woman is pissed off that he would even suggest the possibility.
“I was angry that he would even consider doing it because it would be first, humiliating, and second, Come What May has a lot of meaning to both of us,” the woman said.
At the end of the day, she wants her wedding to be about their love– not a prank.
After expressing this to Terrence, though, he became upset and asked for some space. The woman also reached out to her brothers for advice, and they called her unreasonable for not even considering the three grand.
Now, the woman is worried that she may have overreacted.
She recognizes that a first dance is not even close to the most important part of marriage. And she knows how much the money could help them start their life together.
Still, she does not want her wedding to be about a prank.
If you were in the woman’s shoes, would you accept the money and do a first dance you are not happy with? Or should the amount of money not matter?
