“They began facing each other, flirting with each other and ignoring me,” she said. “Every time I tried to signal to leave, Jason would order me another drink on his tab. But he wasn’t speaking to me at all. Jason then began throwing coasters and ice cubes at me randomly. I felt humiliated.”
“We finish up, and I’m heading back to my Airbnb when the girl asks me back to her apartment with them. I said yes, since Jason and I have barely spoken since I arrived. The same thing happened there.”
“I’m ignored, and then Jason starts throwing random stuff at me. I was about to leave, and he asked me to come out onto the balcony with him. I did so. I told him I’ve been asked on a date with someone in the city, and he said nothing. He suddenly full-on sprinted inside and left me alone on the balcony. Seriously, what. Is. Happening.”
She then questioned Jason about when he would be leaving this girl’s place to go home, and he informed her that he was actually sleeping over.
This only made her feel even worse, as remember, she had a crush on Jason, and here she was all the way from home just to be able to spend time with him.
At that point, she decided it was time for her to call it a night and be done with the craziness. Jason never acknowledged that she was leaving, and he also did not say goodbye to her either. He just sat there on his phone.
It was 2 in the morning when she decided to exit this girl’s apartment, so there she was, walking all by herself.
On her way back, Jason did send her a text to get back to where she was staying safely. She then chose to kind of confront Jason about what had just gone down.
“I ask him if I just third wheeled, and he insisted I didn’t, that she’s “just a friend,” she continued. “I asked if he wanted to meet up again, but he declined, saying he’s too busy.”
“I just flew 8 hours for…that. I am actually mortified. How could he treat me with such disregard and disrespect?”
She’s left feeling so hurt and confused that he asked the girl he’s clearly sleeping with out to dinner with the two of them, but then already ate with her before she arrived and then spent the rest of the evening tossing ice cubes at her.