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Regardless, I am not a fan of ghosting because I believe in the old saying, “treat others as you want to be treated.” I don’t particularly appreciate being ghosted, so unless necessary, I will give them a reason before I do it. Now, let’s talk about when it is okay to ghost someone. Usually, there are three reasons for ghosting someone:
-A disrespect of boundaries. They constantly push you for more time without understanding you have a life to live that does not always include them. It is your job to protect your space and establish firm boundaries. If they won’t listen, then ghosting is the right call.
-They are emotionally manipulative. Any time you try to set boundaries or communicate your desires, they twist the narrative and turn your words against you. Manipulators cannot be reasoned with, so ghosting is likely the best way.
-Failure to understand the word “No.” Anytime you are firm and direct, and they do not respect your “No,” ghost them. You did your part. Communication takes two.
Ghosting is more than acceptable anytime they refuse to respect your boundaries, refuse to communicate respectfully, or if your safety is at risk (physical, mental, or emotional).
If they behave in a way that makes communicating directly tricky, they leave you no choice. So while I may not be a fan of ghosting someone, if it can be avoided, it is okay to ghost someone when you feel you need to.
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