Katharina Buczek
“I would argue it is highly important to make sure you take care of yourself because your personal difficulties are now felt by your spouse as well– especially if you cannot attack the issue head-on.”
“It is okay to tell your spouse you need something for yourself.”
Problems That Existed Before Marriage Will Not Disappear After Marriage
“Your single problems will be your married problems. Marriage and your spouse cannot fix you.”
“Work on yourself as much as you can before you get married– for yourself and for your spouse.”
“On the contrary, it [marriage] is more or less guaranteed to many any problems you currently have worse.”
“The wedding is just one day and does not fix any issues. It goes back to the exact same relationship afterward. And if you’re lucky, that’s a good thing.”
