Her sister even started making comments about her behavior too. For instance, her sister called her an ungrateful brat for not helping out their parents.
Still, that did not stop her from pulling back from the family, which only made her family’s comments worse over time.
Just recently, though, her sister overheard her making plans to move out with her friends in a few months and totally freaked out.
Apparently, her sister was super pissed off that she did not mention any of the plans. Then, her sister claimed that their parents had saved for both of them to go to college and accused her of just running away.
Her sister did not know that their parents never had the same future plans for her, though. So, after hearing the college comment, something inside of her “broke,” and she totally let loose on her sister.
“I told her that SHE has a college fund waiting for her, but I don’t. Just like SHE can get anything she wants while I am told to act my age and not want anything. I told her she expects me to be a maid when I get nothing, and she gets everything,” she vented.
She also pointed out how she is not much older than her sister. Then, she asked her sister how she would feel if she was constantly expected to juggle a younger sibling, take care of most of the household chores, keep up with schoolwork, and never have time to socialize with friends.
And finally, she told her sister to consider how exhausted she must feel after working for everything she has on top of all of her other responsibilities.
“I told her that’s my life and that she does not make me want to stay any more than our parents do.” Yikes.
All of this did not really get through to her sister, though. Instead, her sister just got super upset and has been calling her a jerk for being so mean.
On top of that, she has been accused of unfairly dumping all of that trauma onto her sister’s shoulders.