His reasoning for using them was that he liked them more than the products she was purchasing for him, so he ended up using her products every single day.
She maintained that she didn’t have a problem with him using her bath products, but she also informed him that she would be using the money from their joint bank account to purchase them moving forward.
“Well, he freaked out,” she said. “He said he can’t afford them, and since I have more money in my personal account anyways, I can afford it. I, however, think it’s unfair as I’m already paying so much towards our joint account that I would like to use my personal money for my own things and savings.”
“Also, it’s not like I asked him to contribute more than he does towards the joint account; we can afford these products together after our other expenses. It will just cut through a bit from our joint savings. We got into a huge fight, and he’s saying that I’m financially abusing him. He got our friends involved, and they’re split. They think I should be considerate of his feelings as I make a lot more than him and can easily afford the products on my own. Now he has stopped using the products as a protest, and I feel terrible.”
She also added that her job is really stressful, and so it’s very, very important to her that she gets to take baths and be able to use these special bath products that she buys. One time, her boyfriend used her absolute favorite bath bomb, that’s super expensive and impossible to find, and she lost it on him.
Anyway, she’s wondering if it is mean of her to force her boyfriend to pay for her pricey bath products. Would you do the same thing if you were her?
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