“Her demands for marriage were that I give her access to all of my bank accounts,” he said. “Not just the joint account that I would contribute to (mainly for bills) or the spending account that I planned on funding so she could enjoy her life with a reasonable amount of expendable income.”
“She wanted all of them. My demands were that I would keep my main bank account private, as well as my crypto and stock accounts. I also asked for a prenup that would separate our marriage from my business. I will maintain full ownership and full liability for any debts in the event of a divorce.”
As soon as he let her know what he wanted in order to get married, she ran right upstairs to ask all of her friends about prenups before claiming that he only wanted a prenup so he could secretly cheat on her.
His girlfriend then told everyone that he has been the poor one in their relationship and all she did was support him.
This is not entirely true; his girlfriend’s mom and dad paid for everything for them for one year, and then his mom and dad stepped in to allow them to live in their home for 2 years without paying any rent.
“Everyone else who was here at the time gave their opinions and tried comforting GF,” he continued.
“They sympathized with her and tried their best to explain my point of view. A few friends are completely on my side, some say that we both have valid viewpoints, and some say that I am wrong because I made GF feel insecure.”
He’s left wondering if it’s a jerk move not to want to fork over all of his bank accounts to his girlfriend while also expecting her to sign a prenup.
Do you think what he is asking for is fair?
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