“Are you seriously going to eat that whole thing?” she got asked.
Now, she just responded, “yeah, probably,” and told her coworker her plan to munch on the board throughout the day. And thankfully, after that, the whole interaction ended for a short while.
That was until a bit later, though, when her coworker decided to come back and bring the whole situation up again.
“I hope you’re not feeling a certain way about me,” her coworker actually said.
And at that point, she just decided to be honest. She told her coworker that, yes, she thought the comments were pretty rude– especially considering she was just trying to eat her lunch.
For whatever reason, though, her coworker opted not to apologize or anything and just tried to reason away their behavior instead. More specifically, her coworker actually first accused her of being the rude one and claimed that she should have “said no more nicely.”
Afterward, her coworker went on to explain how they were really hungry, too, and their food had not arrived yet. So, the coworker said she could have handled this situation better.
But, as you can imagine, she was frankly pretty over dealing with the conversation by then, and she finally told her coworker that. Then, she just got up and went to sit in the hallway away from the drama.
Immediately afterward, though, she then overheard her coworker actually talking about her and calling her a b*tch to another employee! So, naturally, that seriously pissed her off.
“I literally just wanted to eat my food on my time and not share,” she vented.
In turn, she has now been left wondering if saying no to her coworker when they asked for a bite of her food was justified or if she actually acted like a jerk.
Why do you think her coworker was so hung up on her not wanting to share? Are you obligated to share food with coworkers? Is it a faux pas to even ask in the first place? If you had been in her shoes, how would you have handled this rude coworker?
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