Chip Chick
“She, while kissing my neck, said, “what are you going to make a girlfriend out of me?” I was like, not right this second, but I’d like to get to know you better one on one and see if we’d both like to take it there,” he said.
“She enthusiastically said yes, and I texted my friends and told them she was going to let me crash at her place.”
The following morning, everything between them was pretty lovey-dovey, and they had made plans to grab lunch with their friends later on, though he suggested maybe skipping out on that and going out on a date instead.
She seemed very excited about that, but after they spent some more time together and hooked up again, it was like a switch flipped.
Suddenly, she blurted out that she wasn’t trying to find a serious relationship and that she even was already seeing another guy.
She also mentioned that she wasn’t exactly serious with this other guy but that he would be upset that she slept with someone else.
“I’m furious at this point, asking why she would do this to someone she calls a friend, and she said that my ex (who I dated for 2 years, the one who cheated on me) said I was a good lay with a large, well you know,” he continued.
“I am…furious at this point. It hurt so much when she dropped the first bomb on me, but then to bring my ex into it. I was absolutely devastated. I am still devastated.”
He quickly left her apartment and got a ride back to his own place. As he was sitting in the car headed home, this girl is texting him and saying he can’t tell their friends about what happened because she’s afraid that the guy she’s seeing will find out.
“She’s telling me, “Nice guys don’t kiss and tell.” “Show me some respect, please,” he added.
“I just don’t feel like doing anything. I can’t even muster up a response to her because I feel so defeated. I feel used. I’ve been there for her through thick and thin. I considered her a close friend, and now I don’t know… if this was a Tinder hook-up, I’d just move on, but this is a friend I trusted and confided in.”
