Katharina Buczek
“I was floored. How incredibly rude to do to the family you’re marrying into?” he said.
He also claims that Ella kept trying to defend herself by underscoring that the wedding would be non-traditional. In other words, she felt like the titles and roles really did not matter in the grand scheme of things.
Plus, Ella pointed out that she and his sister never had a close relationship. In fact, Ella referenced past instances when his sister ruined a few nights out by overdrinking and said that she did not want her trip to be ruined, too.
Despite all of that, though, he still just could not understand how Ella would not invite her future sister-in-law to the bachelorette party.
“I still felt like my sister should be going because Ella has known her for eight years,” he vented.
Anyway, he ultimately decided to tell his mom about what happened and relayed everything that Ella had said. And if you could not have guessed, she was beyond devastated.
In fact, his mom actually began crying on the spot because her daughter was not invited. Then, this drama prompted a lengthy fight in which his family attacked his brother Brian since they wanted him to get Ella to change her mind about the party guest list.
Ella refused to budge on who she invited to her own party, though, and for whatever reason, he could not believe it. So, he actually decided to just drop out of his brother’s trip instead.
“I told Brian I obviously couldn’t go on his trip since our sister was clearly being left out. And if I go and my sister doesn’t, it would absolutely devastate my family,” he explained.
“I could not have long-term resentment with my family, so I chose to skip it and protect my family.”
Now, this entire ordeal happened months ago. To this day, though, he feels that his relationship with both Brian and Ella never recovered.
