And this presented a huge problem after she went over to her parent’s house for dinner a few days ago and inevitably ran into her sister-in-law.
In fact, as soon as they saw each other, the pregnancy came up.
Apparently, her sister-in-law first made a comment about how she was pregnant in a very excited tone.
To that, she responded with an “I know” and basically said the same thing to her sister-in-law that she said to her brother– she wishes them good luck.
Her sister-in-law was not very satisfied with her response, though, and asked, “That’s it?” Then, she got asked if she was actually happy for the expectant couple.
Obviously, though, she was not– but did not think it was the time or place to air out her opinion. So, she tried to deflect and told her sister-in-law that her feelings were irrelevant and underscored how the decision to have another baby was ultimately up to them.
Her sister-in-law would not take that for an answer, though, and claimed that her opinions did matter. Then, she was begged to share her honest thoughts on the pregnancy, and it was not pretty.
“Frankly, I think you’re making a mistake, and this innocent child is going to suffer the consequences of your selfishness. You are not ready to care for another little life when you cannot even pay your own bills. How long do you think my mom and sister are going to support you?” she told her sister-in-law. Yikes!
And after getting that off her chest, her sister-in-law interrupted her with a “what the hell” before claiming that their finances her “none of her freaking business.”
Plus, her sister-in-law then tried to backpedal and claimed that they only asked her opinion out of politeness. Instead, she did not hold back at all.
So, at that point, she reminded her sister-in-law that she was asked to be honest. Still, her sister-in-law accused her of being a jerk and then went to complain about the entire conversation to her brother.