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His sister has loved being so close to her, and so naturally, when she got engaged, she invited his sister to be one of her one and only bridesmaid.
When her sister found out about her engagement, her sister stated that she would adore getting to be one of her bridesmaids.
It was then that she questioned her sister if she was serious, and her sister insisted that she was before suggesting that her best friend could also be a bridesmaid too.
“I asked her if she’d do it if her best friend wasn’t asked,” she said. “She told me that wouldn’t happen since we’re all family now, and she’s our sister now. I told her she wasn’t my sister or my friend, and I wouldn’t want her in my wedding.”
“This is when my parents got involved, too, and they asked me why I didn’t ask my sister. I said I love my sister, even if we’re not close like we were, but I would not want her best friend to be a bridesmaid too, and I know they would never be okay with me having just my sister.”
“I think everyone knows what happened from here, seeing as I’m posting. I was reminded she’s family. That she’s legally my sister now. That it seems so mean to not ask my sister just because I would have to include “both sisters” and how I am harming the relationship more than anyone else by doing this. They said it’s time to grow up and accept the reality and that not all sibling relationships are perfect from day one but having two sisters is better than having none.”
She’s left wondering if it was mean of her to exclude her sister simply because she wanted to not have to include her adopted sister.
What do you think?
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