“But without consulting me, Kevin told Amy that he was fine with all of that and that if Amy was at a stage where she would like to wear a dress when our wedding happened, then he would find her a dress that matched the colors he had for his groomsmen,” she explained.
And since Amy has been medically transitioning for about a year now, Kevin recently told her that they needed to find Amy a new dress.
Now, she claims that she does not have a problem with Amy and understands just how close her fiancé is to her.
“But our wedding is largely for my very traditional family,” she said.
In fact, she also claims that Kevin has said the wedding “is not that important to him.” Moreover, her fiancé only agreed to do it because he knows it is very important to her and her family.
So, she believes that her family would have “a lot of issues” with Amy being Kevin’s best woman. She is also “sure” that her family’s issues would bring a bunch of unwanted or rude attention toward Amy.
And she claims that these reasons pushed her to actually ask her fiancé if he would choose someone else. She even requested that Amy attend as just a guest instead of having any part as a groomsman.
Understandably, though, Kevin was completely against this. In fact, she and her fiancé ended up getting into a massive argument, in which Kevin even threatened to cancel the wedding unless Amy was a part of the big day.
But, for whatever reason, she does not seem to understand the fact that Kevin simply wants his closest family member to be a part of the ceremony.
Instead, it appears she is more focused on how her family will perceive Amy.
“I am trying to get him to understand the issues this will cause, but I am not sure he gets it,” she vented.