Her ex mentioned that it was not a big deal and that he felt he “owed” her. She inquired further about what he meant, and he finally owned up to something she had suspected all along.
“…Long story short, he said that he had “always felt guilty” about telling me there wasn’t another woman when in truth, he had begun having feelings for his current girlfriend—who I also found out is actually now his fiancée—up to a YEAR before we began the divorce process,” she said.
“He remains adamant that he didn’t do anything physical but admits that he hung out with her behind my back and told her about his plans to leave me, and admitted it was an emotional affair.”
“I know I should feel validated about being right and finally getting an apology and confession but honestly…I just feel REALLY, REALLY mad. I mean, like, I always knew he started with her before-she “officially” moved in really fast and who knows when she unofficially moved in but knowing this was happening a YEAR before we began to separate and he was still acting like he had no idea what was going on…like if he had just told me he had feelings for her then I could’ve gotten closure and started moving on that much sooner!!”
She is so furious with her ex that she had to ask her mom to come to get their kids from his house because she can’t face him right now.
Her ex has accused her of being “overly dramatic,” and because they’re divorced now, he feels she shouldn’t really care.
Her ex also believes that because he issued an apology to her that she needs to leave the past in the past.
Do you think she has every right to be mad, or do you think she should just get over this as her ex says?
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