She then pointed out to her boyfriend that it made her uneasy to know that he had slept with his best friends yet has basically zero boundaries with them.
Her boyfriend insisted that his history with his best friends was water under the bridge and that if the roles were reversed, he wouldn’t have a problem at all. She isn’t friends with any guy that she has ever slept with, so she didn’t really understand him trying to add that to their conversation.
Her boyfriend then got really prickly about the secret he had kept from her, and he insisted he just thought she would not want to know his history with his best friends.
When their conversation was over, her boyfriend kind of flipped the script and was mad at her. He accused her of not “being fair” to him because he never kept the secret to be mean.
“I don’t really know what to do now because I don’t feel like I can trust him, and now I am like rethinking our whole relationship and all our memories and feeling sick with my new knowledge,” she said.
“We spoke, and he apologized for his initial reaction and said totally should have told me and sees why this would be uncomfy for me, and that he wanted to do whatever it took to regain my trust because me and our relationship is a priority to him (his words).”
“Up til now, our relationship has been pretty great, and we’ve been able to work through issues that come up. I don’t really know what to do or how to move past this with him, and I need advice.”
Do you think this is something she can get over or should get over?
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