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Where She Comes From, Men Are Always Expected To Pay When Taking A Girl Out On A Date, And Now She’s Sparking A Conversation About Who Really Should Pay

It’s that she was raised with the mindset that it’s an absolutely normal and expected custom for every man to pay completely on the first few dates.

“That’s how I was brought up,” she said. “I’m just curious.”

This is such a big contender for her in her dating life that it’s one of her absolutes when considering a potential partner. Someone who won’t pay for her on the first dates– absolutely not.

“I mean, I could never be with a guy who makes me pay for my meal on the first date,” she explained.

Given that she was genuinely confused about this controversial topic, she asked her viewers their thoughts. The results were certainly mixed.

For many women, it’s a question of morality.

“A real man NEVER let a woman pay when it comes to dating or anything,” one commenter wrote.

Another viewer agreed to say, “I’m Mexican, and I think the man should pay; if he doesn’t, it tells me a lot about his character.”

But there are those who feel awkward about men paying entirely for them.

“I believe in equality and not in “how I was brought up.” The person who asked to go on the date pays,” a viewer remarked.

Some feel as though it becomes a kind of bargain if he pays for the entire bill and you intend on seeing him again for another date.

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