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He then said he believes people who seek out cosmetic procedures are not secure in themselves and only think how they look is important.
He insisted that he would not dictate to her that she couldn’t do these things, but he wasn’t going to lie about his feelings.
His girlfriend replied that she does feel secure with her looks, but he doesn’t buy that at all.
Then, his girlfriend dyed her hair a few days ago and went from a shade of blonde to completely auburn, and his girlfriend was so upset with the change.
He wasn’t bothered by her being upset; he was bothered by her reaction to hating her new hair color.
His girlfriend obsessed over it, cried for nights on end and wouldn’t wear it in any style except up.
She also would not leave her home at all, and he had to practically beg her to even go out to grab groceries.
“I’ve seen pictures of my girlfriend before she had any cosmetic procedures, without makeup, etc., and I think she’s beautiful the way she is,” he said.
“I told her this with the caveat that I know she doesn’t do those things for me per se, but I had hoped she would feel less pressure to do those things. Putting so much value into her appearance both makes me sad that she feels like she has to spend so much time and money on these things, and is also a major turnoff.”
“Which leaves me where I am now. I am honestly so turned off by these recent things that I don’t think I want to be with her anymore. I did not realize how much she values appearance to the point that she gets unhealthily obsessed if she doesn’t look a certain way and spends so much time and money on cosmetic procedures.”
He just doesn’t believe that they have the same principles and that they don’t place importance on the same things.
