Katharina Buczek
This is completely natural, and if you are in the same boat, you should not feel like you are failing adulthood. Instead, this is just a common obstacle that many people have to work through. And the key is honest self-reflection.
Let’s face it: if you have no clue where you are going, then you are not going to get anywhere fast. This applies to everything in life– from careers and relationships to hobbies and home ownership.
And if you find yourself drifting aimlessly, unsure of what you want to achieve or how to get there, you can become frustrated by the lack of progress and ultimately give up on your dreams.
So in order to give yourself a clear direction in life, you have to start by setting specific, measurable, and achievable goals.
Right about now, you might be thinking, “Back up. Goals for what? I don’t even know what I want!”
That’s a totally valid point, and this is where the self-reflection comes in. Before you can set any realistic and fulfilling goals, you have to identify what you truly want. Think back to your childhood dreams and take stock of your core interests now as an adult.
Don’t be afraid to lean into your fantasies and really get to the bottom of what excites and motivates you.
Is it a dream home by the beach? A fancy job title that comes with its own office? Your own business?
Whatever it may be, narrow down your interests, passions, and end goals. Pro tip: writing them down in a journal can be a great way to organize your thoughts.
Then, once you have successfully done this, you can begin considering your strengths and weaknesses.
Be honest with yourself about the limitations that are holding you back, as well as your “superpowers” that can help propel you to fulfill your potential.
