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So, consider assigning tasks– such as greeting guests, helping out with decorations, or managing the gift table– to some of your family members.
Not only will this help you out with coordinating your big day, but it will also give some family members who are prone to starting drama a more positive outlet and focus.
3. Limit Alcohol Consumption
Too much alcohol is known to stir up chaos in many people’s families. So, if you are worried about certain family members throwing back a few too many drinks, don’t be afraid to limit alcohol consumption.
Now, you don’t have to be super obvious with this tactic. Instead, you could opt to have a cash bar instead of a completely open bar to prevent people from getting too inebriated and causing problems.
4. Consider Seating Arrangements Wisely
When it comes to mitigating family drama, you cannot overlook the importance of seating arrangements.
If you know certain individuals do not get along, be sure to seat them at separate tables or even in different areas of your reception venue. You should also try to seat testy family members with other guests who are more likely to keep the conversation uplifting and positive.
5. Plan Ahead For Potential Conflicts
Even if you take all of these preventative steps, it is still possible that family drama might unfold. So, to avoid any issues ruining your big day, try to have a disaster plan in place.
More specifically, designate one trusted friend or family member who can help mediate any issues should they arise. That way, they can focus on diffusing tense situations while you focus on enjoying your special day.
