Several TikTok users wholeheartedly agreed with Esther’s lesson and determined that the act of listening can make or break a relationship.
“Absolutely true. My ex was talking so much about his ex; in the end, we broke up because he wasn’t over her, and it was just upsetting me,” commented one user.
“I’m a man, and this is by far the best advice for women. What made me fall for the love of my life was the fact that she listened to me and remembered,” shared another.
“He constantly spoke about his favorite rock band and movies that he watched. 22 years later, I realize he just wanted fame,” chimed in a third.
So if you really want to get to know someone, simply just sit back and listen.
@sarphatieesther Next time you have a first date with a romantic partner try to listen to what he talks about. The very first things he chooses to talk about, say a lot about him. Your questions about what kind of man he is are all in what he will tell you about himself on that first date. We often don’t remember what was spoken about, because we are too busy with how we look or with how he looks, but what he says will show you what kind of man he actually is. If he talk about his family, you will know that they are important to him and if you want to get to know him, all you have to do is to listen to him. #listen #firstdate #date #dating #datingadvice #datingtips #datingadviceforwomen #firstdates #firstdatetips #firstdateadvice #romantic #romance #love #datingtipsforwomen #forgirls #viraltok #viraltiktok #lovetiktok #fyp #foryourpage #foryou #loveadvice #firsttime #him
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