Katharina Buczek
“And I had no idea what he was talking about,” he recalled.
But, it turned out that he was the only person who was clueless about his girlfriend’s past– because his friend was completely shocked by his confusion.
He ultimately found out that before he met his girlfriend, she was extremely “active” with other guys. In other words, she had hooked up with some of the men in their friend group and had also sent spicy photos to nearly all of them.
Since he had no clue about any of that, he couldn’t believe it at first, either. But, he wound up asking another friend if that was all true, and apparently, that friend also provided the same “You didn’t know?” response.
Now, to be clear, he doesn’t necessarily care that his girlfriend got around before they met. In fact, he already knew that she was quite active with other guys.
“She told me from the get-go,” he revealed.
However, he just didn’t know that his girlfriend meant with all of her friends– who now also happen to be his friends. And since he and his girlfriend still talk to and hang out with these guys basically every day, he’s starting to feel pretty weird about the fact that he was the only person who didn’t know.
Still, he is really not sure what to think or how to navigate this situation. So now, he has been left wondering how to move forward.
Does it seem like his girlfriend was trying to hide her past? Are people required to disclose their past partners? Is it different when you and your partner are friends with all of them? Can you understand why he might feel like a fool for being the only person who didn’t know? How would you handle this situation?
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