She and her boyfriend do want to get married to one another, and they both couldn’t ever dream of then getting divorced.
She does want to make her parents happy and follow through with the prenup, and if something ever did happen to cause her and her boyfriend to split up, the prenup would not make them “better or worse” than where they are now.
The prenup simply would state that she and her boyfriend could exit their marriage with everything they entered it with and only would split what they made with one another.
Her boyfriend is still completely opposed to a prenup and insists that they should be all in or all out.
“I know this will cause issues with my family (my parents, grandparents, aunt, and uncle all have prenups),” she said.
“How do I talk to him about whether or not we should get one without him shutting down and getting offended again?”
“It’s something I’m willing to talk through and make a decision on together, but it feels like he’s trying to pressure me into a hard no on this.”
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