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She Found Her Boyfriend’s Ex On Instagram And Now Feels Really Insecure Because His Ex Is Apparently Prettier Than Her

And that just makes her feel really insecure because she believes she is not very pretty, smart, talented, or interesting. On top of that, she feels like she and her boyfriend have basically no hobbies in common.

That’s why she’s starting to get really worried about whether her boyfriend feels like he downgraded by getting into a relationship with her– particularly because she apparently knows that if her boyfriend’s ex had not left him, then he wouldn’t have ended his last relationship. Apparently, her boyfriend was with his ex for eight years. And their relationship only ended because his ex reportedly got sick of him.

“I can tell the breakup had a bad effect on him, too. It hurts me to know how much better she is than me,” she said.

What makes it worse is that whenever they fight, she claims her boyfriend actually compares her to his ex. Now, he never says anything particularly good about his ex. In fact, the comparisons are mostly negative connotations– in which she gets told she is acting like his ex.

Nonetheless, it doesn’t make her feel good that her boyfriend is even thinking about his ex in the first place. And now, after seeing what his ex actually looked like and learning more about her as a person, she is not sure how to move on from this.

“I can’t help but feel like my boyfriend just settled for me because he couldn’t have the girl he really wanted. I feel sick,” she vented.

So, she’s since been left wondering what to do and how to cope with this situation.

Have you ever looked at one of your partner’s exes on social media? Is it natural or worrisome to feel insecure? Do you think she should feel concerned about her relationship? What advice would you give her?

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