“I ended up giving her two options,” she explained.
“If she wanted me at the reception, she needed to pick somewhere that was accessible. If she didn’t pick somewhere accessible, then I’d, of course, still be her bridesmaid at the wedding, but I’d have to skip the reception.”
Her future sister-in-law became very angry at this point and told her that her absence from the reception would be noticeable and make her look bad as a bride. She then accused her of trying to make the day all about her.
“I won’t lie,” she said. At this point, I was enraged,” she recalled.
During their discussion, which was quickly turning into an argument, her future sister-in-law admitted that if her brother hadn’t already known about her status as a bridesmaid, she would take her out of the wedding party.
She gave up on trying to argue with the bride-to-be and left her with the same two options. Pick a new venue, or don’t have her at the reception.
Later, she told her brother what had happened, and he was very disappointed in his fiancée. To make matters worse, she found out that the reception venue hadn’t even officially been booked yet, and that there was still time to change it. After hearing what his fiancée said about her being a bridesmaid, he asked her to stand beside him as a ‘groomswoman’ instead.
How would you feel if a future member of your family treated you this way?
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