Katharina Buczek
But, it is important to understand the couple’s expectations ahead of time via open communication. For instance, if you are unclear about what “black tie” means, shoot the couple a text or email for some clarification. You could even forward a potential outfit idea for approval if you really need help.
And if you are worried about arriving on time, communicate that to the bride or groom and ask them how to handle any tardiness. For instance, should you wait until 11:30 a.m. to sneak in the back in order to avoid any interruptions of the bride’s entrance? The couple can help you figure that out.
The bottom line is that you shouldn’t make assumptions or ignore expectations. Instead, work to understand the couple’s guidelines to the best of your ability, and if you need help or guidance, don’t be afraid to reach out.
2. Never Bring An Uninvited Plus-One
I get it: weddings are fantastic places to meet people. After all, love is in the air, and you are getting exposed to tons of new individuals whom you might not have ever met before.
At the same time, weddings also make stellar dates– whether that be for you and your partner or a new potential significant other you have gone out for a few drinks with.
Despite that, though, you should never just show up with a plus-one unless your invitation explicitly states you are allowed to bring one.
Remember that weddings are, first of all, expensive. Second, they are usually meticulously planned, and any unexpected guests can throw a large wrench in the plan– messing up seating arrangements and even leading to food or drink shortages.
So, if you are unsure about bringing a date, be sure to always ask first. And if the couple says no, just respect their wishes.
3. Practice Beverage Restraint
Yes, open bars are tempting and make a world of difference in guests’ experiences. I mean, not having to pay and getting access to endless liquor? Sounds like a dream!
