Katharina Buczek
But even after they had the conversation, things were still tense between them for the rest of the trip.
In fact, her sister apparently made her feel really unwelcomed and even stayed out very late each night.
While she was hurt by her sister’s actions, though, she still stayed at her sister’s home because she really wanted to spend time with her nephews.
However, by the third night of her stay, she decided it was time to have a serious conversation with her sister– because she had a gut feeling that her sister’s animosity was much deeper than the lunch incident.
And unfortunately, once she actually approached her sister, her concerns were validated.
“She spent two and a half hours listing everything that she did not like about me, my behavior, my life choices, my personality,” she revealed.
“I was sobbing for the most part and unable to answer, but she kept on going, unfazed.”
Her sister’s list spanned all the way back to when she was just 5-years-old and refused to play with her sister.
Then, she found out that throughout their teenage and college years, her sister only ever viewed her as a friend and not a real sister.
Now, she was confused by this because when her sister got married, she was asked to officiate the wedding. Plus, she was even asked to be her nephew’s godmother!
It is becoming clear to her, though, that her sister was just extremely disappointed that she chose to remain in Canada.
