He claimed that he really tries to put himself out there nowadays, too. He has become more social and goes out a ton. He also talks to women, asks women out, and is friends with a decent number of women. Not to mention, he tries to dress well and puts effort into bettering himself as a person.
Despite all of that, he feels as though he is lacking something that he cannot exactly put his finger on. He wants to know what it is so he can change in order to finally thrive in the dating scene.
“I don’t get it, really,” he vented.
“I like who I became. I think I’m much better inside and outside than I was a few years ago. But factually, the situation is absolutely the same as when I was the ugly, awkward nerd.”
So, he’s been left wondering what he is doing wrong when it comes to dating.
Does it sound like he is doing anything “wrong?” Or is it more likely that he still just isn’t confident enough in himself? Have you ever had a “glow-up” but continued to lack self-confidence afterward? What advice would you give him?
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